The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys: What to Do After Buying Your First Toy

Beginner’s Guide to Sex Toys: How to Use, Care, and Explore Pleasure Safely & Confidently in Nigeria

So you’ve finally bought your first sex toy — whether from a walk-in store like OppsyStore in Ogudu GRA, Lagos, or ordered discreetly online. First of all, congratulations! 🎉 You’re about to explore new levels of personal pleasure, self-discovery, and intimacy. But like with any new experience, it’s important to approach it with the right information.

Here’s everything you need to know to get started confidently, safely, and pleasurably.

🛍️ Step 1: Unboxing with Care

Once you’re in a safe and private space, it’s time to open your toy:

• Check the contents: Ensure all parts, manuals, and chargers (if rechargeable) are included.

• Read the manual: Each toy works differently. Learn about the settings, charging methods, cleaning instructions, and warnings for best use.

💡 Pro Tip: Most premium brands like Svakom, WeVibe, and Lelo offer waterproof designs and multiple vibration modes. Don’t skip the manual — it’s your best friend.

🔋 Step 2: Charge Before Use

Just like your phone, a sex toy needs a full charge before first use.

• Plug it in using the included USB or magnetic charger.

• Wait until the indicator shows a full charge (usually a steady light).

• Charging can take 1–3 hours depending on the model.

❗ Don’t use the toy while charging. Always unplug and test only after it’s fully powered.

⚙️ Step 3: Test the Settings in Private

Before diving into pleasure, test-run your toy in a quiet space:

• Try each vibration or thrusting mode to feel the strength and rhythm.

• Hold it in your hands, against your inner arm, or on your thigh to feel the intensity.

• Adjust the speed, pulse patterns, and heating (if available) to learn what feels right.

🎯 If it’s a remote-controlled or app-based toy, sync it properly and explore the settings via the app.

🧼 Step 4: Clean Before First Use

Even if your toy is brand-new, always clean it before first use:

• Use a mild, unscented soap or better still, a dedicated toy cleaner.

• Wash silicone or metal parts with warm water — don’t submerge if it’s not waterproof!

• Dry with a clean, lint-free cloth or air-dry.

🧴 For added hygiene, use a condom over penetrative toys if sharing with a partner.

💧 Step 5: Use Water-Based Lubricant

Lubricant enhances pleasure and prevents discomfort or friction:

• Use only water-based lubricants for silicone toys (e.g., Sliquid Organics or Pjur Aqua).

• For anal toys, go for thicker lubes for better glide and comfort.

🔥 Lubes with added arousal agents (like warming or tingling) can boost the experience — just patch test first.

💡 Step 6: Play Gently and Listen to Your Body

When you’re ready:

• Begin slow — don’t rush penetration or pressure.

• Use your hand to guide the toy to sensitive areas like the clitoris, nipples, or anus.

• Switch modes gently and explore until you find what works for your body.

💖 Your comfort comes first. If anything feels uncomfortable, stop and adjust.

🧽 Step 7: Clean After Every Use

Cleaning your toy after use keeps it safe and long-lasting:

• Wipe down with toy cleaner or mild soap and warm water.

• Pay attention to crevices or textures where fluids may collect.

• Dry completely and store in a dust-free pouch or box.

🚫 Never store a toy while it’s damp or uncharged.

📦 Step 8: Safe Storage

Keep your toys:

• In a cool, dry place, away from direct sunlight.

• Separate from other toys (especially silicone), as some materials can react and melt.

• In their original pouches or cases to maintain hygiene.

⛔ Avoid These Common Mistakes

• Using silicone lube on silicone toys (can degrade the surface).

• Skipping cleaning – before and after use is non-negotiable.

• Overcharging — unplug once fully charged to protect battery life.

• Sharing toys without protection — always use condoms or clean between partners.

🔁 How to Maintain for Longevity

• Clean regularly, even if unused for a while.

• Recharge every 2–3 months to maintain battery health.

• Inspect for cracks, discoloration, or damage — replace if compromised.

💑 Exploring with a Partner

If using with a partner:

• Communicate boundaries, preferences, and comfort levels.

• Try remote-controlled or wearable toys like WeVibe Chorus or Svakom Elva for couples.

• Use as foreplay or main stimulation — explore together without pressure.

🔗 Where to Get Beginner-Friendly Sex Toys

If you’re in Nigeria, visit OppsyStore or stop by their discreet walk-in store at:

📍 Ogudu GRA, Ojota, Lagos
Landmark: Alfred Flower Shop Decoration

They stock:

• Trusted brands like Svakom, WeVibe, Blush, Lelo, PrettyLove

• Beginner-friendly toys like bullet vibrators, rabbit vibes, butt plugs, and more

• Essential care products like lubricants, cleaners, and storage cases

💬 You can also contact them on WhatsApp or via Instagram @oppsystore247 for advice or support.

✅ Final Words

Owning a sex toy is a powerful act of self-love and sexual wellness. With the right care, patience, and exploration, your toy can bring you years of pleasure, confidence, and intimacy.

Whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner — remember: Pleasure is your right, and OppsyStore is here to support you every step of the way.